Joshua, Leila and the occasional guest talk about Betrothal, Dating, and Christian Relationships, bringing a radical perspective that they see in the Bible. If you want to hear how the Bible can be applied to relationships today, how Christians should view and approach singlehood and marriage, then this is the podcast for you!
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Episode 1: Why We Didn't Date
Joshua and Leila share what they were taught about dating as they were growing up and what led them to choose a different approach to finding a spouse - one that didn’t involve dating!
Episode 2: Am I Betrothed or Not?
One of the most frequently asked question that the Betrothal Guys receive is, “Am I betrothed or not?” It’s important to know the answer because to be betrothed, Biblically is to be a lawful spouse! For those who are unsure of their relationship status or what to do about past mistakes, this episode will hopefully bring some clarity and closure.
Episode 3: Do We Believe In "The One?"
In our resources we tell singles to “let God choose your spouse” and “ask God who to marry.” If statements like those make you wonder if we are believers in “The One” then this is the episode to clear up your wonderings!
Episode 4: Women Initiating and Ruth - Part 1
Modern Christians have been urging single women to make the first move, making an appeal to the Biblical character for support, “that’s what Ruth did!” In this episode, Joshua and Leila delve into the Book of Ruth to discover what her example teaches us.
Episode 5: Women Initiating and Ruth - Part 2
Continuing through the book of Ruth. Is there scriptural precedent for single women to initiate with the men they are interested in?
Episode 6: "The Only Lethal Mistake in Dating"
Author Joshua Rogers opens his article, “The Only Lethal Mistake in Dating” with, “There’s one thing I won’t fault myself for, and it’s this: I tried.” Joshua and Leila review and discuss his dating experiences in hopes of helping listeners better understand what NOT to do.
Episode 7: Why We Didn't Do Courtship
Most of the Christians who decided to “Kiss Dating Goodbye” did Courtship instead. That’s not the path that Joshua and Leila chose. In this episode they cover what they don’t like about Courting and what led them to choose “betrothal” instead.
Episode 8: Guarding Your Heart
Using Debra Fileta's article, "How to Guard Your Heart: 3 Practical Steps to Preventing 'Emotional Sex'" as a discussion point, Joshua and Leila explore ways to guard your heart when pursuing marriage.
Episode 9: Explain It to Me Like I'm Six
If you are confused what on earth the “Betrothal Guys” are promoting, this is the episode for you! In it Joshua and Leila break down what they call “Biblical Betrothal” and try to make it understandable to the modern, western culture.
"To Betroth or Not to Betroth" - Part 1
Michael Pearl, pastor, author and head of “No Greater Joy Ministries,” wrote against betrothal in his article, “To Betroth or Not to Betroth? That is the Question.” Joshua and Leila compare their experiences with Michael Pearl’s description to see why he advises against it.